Less is More
If you ask
most Americans, they'll tell you that they'd like to have "more". We all
wish we had more time, more space, more money, more things.
Yet
if you look at the popularity of shows like "Clean Sweep" and "Neat" it
becomes clear that we are drowning in stuff! So how much is enough? Do
you really use and enjoy all of the things that you currently own? Open
the nearest closet, or drawer, or cupboard... do you even know what's in
there?
Perhaps
instead of yearning for more, we'd actually be happier if we had less...
Less stuff to store and maintain, fewer rooms to clean and fewer
commitments to honor. Wouldn't that really mean that you had more room,
more time and more money in the bank?
Imagine, for a
moment, how much money you would have saved if instead of buying those
clothes, or knick knacks or whatever it was that you couldn't live
without, you had taken that money and
put it in the bank. What if you had time to really appreciate and enjoy
the things that you do have? How much energy would you save if you
didn't have to deal with clutter and chaos?
Why Do We Buy Things We
Don't Really Want or Need?
It seemed like
such a good idea at the time, didn't it? It was going to make your life
easier, or save you time or make you happy, or make you feel more
important. Did it? How long did the feeling last?
Emotional Spending
The problem is
that many of us are trying to fill an emotional void with things, and it
just doesn't work. We are flooded with glamorous images of people on TV
and in the movies who have more than we do... and they seem happy.
We convince
ourselves that we should be rewarded with things, when in reality, every
time you take on a new thing, you take on a new responsibility. Things
require storage, cleaning and maintenance, not to mention the time that
went in to earning the money to buy the thing in the first place!
So the next
time you're tempted to "treat yourself" to some new item, stop and think
about how much it's really going to cost you. Maybe you'll decide that
it would be more of a treat to put that money in the bank and chalk up a
few more dollars worth of freedom. |